tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5992417360714180348.post7365230621776289329..comments2023-12-31T03:16:49.841-05:00Comments on Splendor In A Plastic World: Home....and Soul ImprovementChantelhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10324845550553743658noreply@blogger.comBlogger25125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5992417360714180348.post-59048109089450089512012-05-10T22:22:32.277-04:002012-05-10T22:22:32.277-04:00I recently had a similar spell, though mine was a ...I recently had a similar spell, though mine was a massive cleaning jag. I think mine was having control over something when I felt like everything was out of control. I have to say, by the way, that this was beautifully written. Your word choice and descriptions left me slightly breathless.Tracy Crenshawhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10118044404594498000noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5992417360714180348.post-45444475862563193012012-05-10T07:12:08.625-04:002012-05-10T07:12:08.625-04:00Candy--and you are a sweetheart! lol Thank you. ...Candy--and you are a sweetheart! lol Thank you. :)<br /><br />Marie--it is indeed, and I can relate to both of those. xoChantelhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10324845550553743658noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5992417360714180348.post-62178132390397261182012-05-10T02:47:55.412-04:002012-05-10T02:47:55.412-04:00They actually say home improvement projects are a ...They actually say home improvement projects are a test of a marriage. Or when our marriage is tested we make home improvements. Sometimes it's hard to say.Marie Loerzelhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11122641412197329551noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5992417360714180348.post-65868676387933760222012-05-09T14:31:06.973-04:002012-05-09T14:31:06.973-04:00OMG you're an amazing writer.....................OMG you're an amazing writer..................Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5992417360714180348.post-30171785220526629872012-05-08T06:49:53.465-04:002012-05-08T06:49:53.465-04:00Oh David, this was such a beautiful song--now look...Oh David, this was such a beautiful song--now looking up more of his work. Thank you so much. xoChantelhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10324845550553743658noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5992417360714180348.post-5455354278170779422012-05-07T18:00:17.444-04:002012-05-07T18:00:17.444-04:00Chantel-for some reason your post made me think of...Chantel-for some reason your post made me think of this song by a Welsh singer songwriter that I enjoy listening to:<br />http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xWgokHrNkJ4<br />DavidND Mitchellhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16510971525209549921noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5992417360714180348.post-9022794377869922652012-05-07T15:49:57.786-04:002012-05-07T15:49:57.786-04:00Brian, Aaron Layne, Sarah Kate,Paige, Mel, Jessee ...Brian, Aaron Layne, Sarah Kate,Paige, Mel, Jessee & Pearl....adore you all.<br /><br />Still working...getting through. xoChantelhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10324845550553743658noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5992417360714180348.post-82504784599335688772012-05-07T15:39:16.142-04:002012-05-07T15:39:16.142-04:00Aw, honey, I'm sorry.
It's the way with w...Aw, honey, I'm sorry.<br /><br />It's the way with women, that we keep our hands busy while our heads and hearts scream. It's passed down to us by well-meaning females -- or perhaps it's innate. Either way, we work to put a semblance of purpose and dignity to an internal struggle. I am coping with one of my own, at the moment, and write almost obsessively, hoping that I will unlock something I've known all along...<br /><br />PearlPearlhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05261369905176088917noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5992417360714180348.post-30622383797000062422012-05-05T01:01:03.322-04:002012-05-05T01:01:03.322-04:00I wish I had something better or more to say than ...I wish I had something better or more to say than "you're going to be ok." You're doing it, making it through the days... and each one is going to be a millimeter easier than the next. <br /><br />You're doing it. <br /><br />I'm sorry you're struggling. Keep fighting. People care.jessee bhttp://www.jesseesspot.blogspot.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5992417360714180348.post-46032136655804373622012-05-04T19:39:22.106-04:002012-05-04T19:39:22.106-04:00Ugh, I hope you're okay.
There is definitely...Ugh, I hope you're okay. <br /><br />There is definitely something to asserting that sense of control. Or maybe it's renewal. Feeling like you made things change for the better and somehow that will make part of life ok. <br /><br />When Mr. W left for London before our wedding, I started cleaning the minute he closed the door behind him. Crying and organizing. Anything I could do to feel like I had a grip on the order of my life. <br /><br />Hang in there, sister.Melissa Marishttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15216312159880277204noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5992417360714180348.post-77461511255811833682012-05-03T16:51:13.450-04:002012-05-03T16:51:13.450-04:00chantel, i admire your ability to
'make' t...chantel, i admire your ability to<br />'make' things, to improve on a foundation already laid.<br /><br />i'm the lazy kitten who curls up<br />with a good get away book or attempt to teach my self a new<br />language, fill a looseleaf with<br />some esoteric theme.<br /><br />though i have found that a good long walk and a talk with my inner heart has worked wonders.<br /><br />adore your writing.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5992417360714180348.post-69394036286520124512012-05-02T22:15:23.483-04:002012-05-02T22:15:23.483-04:00Now this is something we most certainly have in co...Now this is something we most certainly have in common. My mantra over the past 10 years has been, 'Just keep moving'. If I don't stop, I don't have any time to break down, reflect, ponder, or do any other sort of activity that requires a lot of emotion. Crisis averted. Don't worry - I'm fully aware of how unhealthy that sounds. <br /><br />But I like to have control, just like every other human. When there are things out of my control, I turn to something I DO have power over - my productivity. It's a way to cope. And it works. Most of the time...Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5992417360714180348.post-67294025145663374282012-05-02T12:06:02.187-04:002012-05-02T12:06:02.187-04:00Thank you for this post. It's raw and real, ju...Thank you for this post. It's raw and real, just as we are in moments-that-seem-eons of time.<br /><br />I also believe that work, renovation, remodeling, makeovers, or whatever else we might call it that we do in response to the emotional maelstrom trickles down to control. When our world crumbles, there is a certain amount of responsibility, 100% or .001%, we have in its crumbling. But when we put hand to task, we grasp complete control, and at the end of the task we can definitively say, "I did that! I made that! I accomplished that!" We are able to successfully remind ourselves that we are not a powerless victim. <br /><br />Hurrah for DIY!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5992417360714180348.post-55868900990448069242012-05-01T12:17:55.777-04:002012-05-01T12:17:55.777-04:00How we do this, is the ink of us...writing our sto...How we do this, is the ink of us...writing our story...true that, great line<br /><br />it wont make it go away, but it does help to move and not let the emotions ambush you in one place...<br /><br />i tend to hit the trail until my legs are killing me or the view from the peak or valley comforts me enough...then you have to hike back though, which stinks sometimes...smiles.<br /><br />hope the sun finds you a bit today...Brian Millerhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00722940075884718007noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5992417360714180348.post-39558616030779495952012-05-01T09:26:36.685-04:002012-05-01T09:26:36.685-04:00Thank you all. I'm so grateful that, as this ...Thank you all. I'm so grateful that, as this very moment when no one within a hundred miles of me knows anything is wrong, I can be honest here. When it all implodes, every kind word is clutched, reread and clung to in an ocean of tears. <br /><br />It's raining again today. I'm painting.Chantelhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10324845550553743658noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5992417360714180348.post-79870927432766791092012-05-01T08:19:55.731-04:002012-05-01T08:19:55.731-04:00I believe you and I are in the same boat, aren'...I believe you and I are in the same boat, aren't we?<br /><br />PearlPearlhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05261369905176088917noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5992417360714180348.post-73583521445103653692012-05-01T04:12:17.432-04:002012-05-01T04:12:17.432-04:00Each of us gets through the hard times anyway we c...Each of us gets through the hard times anyway we can.Mary Kirklandhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04991095291522043588noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5992417360714180348.post-52897414974189528462012-05-01T02:15:17.703-04:002012-05-01T02:15:17.703-04:00Dear Chantel,
There IS something about the studio ...Dear Chantel,<br />There IS something about the studio looking great that helps us get through. New splashes of color cheer, a small vase of flowers on a recently painted treasure rescued from a curb-side brings a sort of inner-joy, and that's something to be said considering the misery that tugs at our soul. It's the finding a bit of "alls-well" in our etorno, it's finding a patch of something beautiful and interesting when emptiness pounds on our door. One can be so lonely inside and out of marriage. Relationships are the best and yet can be so treacherous. My prayers are with you. I relate as I've repainted, redone, and reorganized many a room, doing what only super-woman could do when the pain hits. Abrazos y Besos. Pensando en ti.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5992417360714180348.post-81639034146903659032012-05-01T01:27:10.100-04:002012-05-01T01:27:10.100-04:00I've been thinking about your post all day. I...I've been thinking about your post all day. I wish I could say something helpful, meaningful.<br /><br />Small consolation: I've been where you are...and somehow lived to tell the tale.terleehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13953328625206810683noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5992417360714180348.post-30419153298998822922012-04-30T17:25:48.226-04:002012-04-30T17:25:48.226-04:00This is what I call art, when someone gives themse...This is what I call art, when someone gives themselves to something. It doesn't matter how you do it. You just do it. I don't think there's much more beautiful act than a human giving of themselves through their work.<br /><br />Thank you for sharing it. You inspire me.<br /><br />In regards to a silver lining all I can say is that in my experience no matter how hard the rain there seems to always eventually come a sunny day. Even in the rain I tell myself that.Shea Goffhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17552862215508671456noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5992417360714180348.post-38608145144411283572012-04-30T16:29:18.088-04:002012-04-30T16:29:18.088-04:00You describe the inner struggle and the outward ef...You describe the inner struggle and the outward efforts to soothe it so beautifully.<br /><br />When I was younger I used to do as you do....build something, sew something, refurbish something. Now that I am not as physical and mobile I crochet while reclining in a comfy chair and meditate. The difference is, when you finish, your surroundings are improved.......with me, no matter how may I give away, I still need more closet room to store the damned afghans....Lohttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08398370059689865989noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5992417360714180348.post-60067971850605118532012-04-30T13:01:01.745-04:002012-04-30T13:01:01.745-04:00"This is the ink." In four words, you ca..."This is the ink." In four words, you captured everything. <br /><br />xoxoLyndsay Wellshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06382324380724354831noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5992417360714180348.post-34798519812045784462012-04-30T08:46:04.991-04:002012-04-30T08:46:04.991-04:00I know where you are at. For me though, it has bee...I know where you are at. For me though, it has been....I think 4 years, the years run together. xoAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5992417360714180348.post-76539947318358409912012-04-30T08:26:46.724-04:002012-04-30T08:26:46.724-04:00I work too.....until i can't move any more.......I work too.....until i can't move any more.....crying is awful but inevitable......life's kick in the pants hurts deeply....and we are never ready for it......keep writing....and working it out....cause at least then.....the place looks good.....mermaid galleryhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04678555215616371872noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5992417360714180348.post-39566009399681304462012-04-30T07:39:56.623-04:002012-04-30T07:39:56.623-04:00I recognize that flurry of activity to assuage and...I recognize that flurry of activity to assuage and soothe what's going on inside. You channel it in productive ways, which is a good thing.Shellyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04930262815304757150noreply@blogger.com